Saturday, April 23, 2011


Yes it's Easter Weekend and another holiday that will be celebrated without our beloved children.

Despite the ache in your heart, I hope you can and will reflect and find peace and wonderful memories that warm your heart and make you smile.. I also wish for you and your family a peace filled, blessed Easter holiday.

Remember - you aren't "letting go" but simply healing and moving forward...

I thought this story might touch you as it did me, written by a sister in grief from Tampa, FL.. Cherie Houston

~ by Chris Gilbert, TCF, Tampa, Florida

Easter bunnies, brand new clothes, egg hunts, candy and baskets, the start of Spring. How exciting is this time of year? A new beginning, everything so fresh, so invigorating! But, unfortunately only painful and sorrowful memories are here for those of us who are bereaved parents and grandparents.

Gone is the laughter, the excitement in a special child’s eyes, the feeling of a whole new aspect in life. Spring is here and the world appears ready to bloom again with new life, new hope, and new wonders.

How can we view life in this way when part of ourselves is now gone, forever lost to us? How can our lives continue to go on when one of us is missing, no longer able to share this “newness” of life? It seems so unfair! And yet, out of our “darkness” comes the first signs of hope – a “bud” of survival, a moment of laughter, a memory of a happier time.
The Easter season usually represents rebirth; let this season be the “birth” of your finding your way back to life again, of finding the ability to heal, and of being able to resolve your grief so that hope and comfort are once again in your life.

Let this time of the year show you, that you CAN, make it through this deepest, most difficult, and sorrowful time of your lives.

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